Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Sayin' Goodbye

Am writin' this blog.. not because I want to, I jas need to write.

There you are sittin' there starin' at the person you love and it's time you gat'a say goodbye. How do you do that? Hey I also don't know the best way.

All the great memories shared, all the "till the end" said, all the tears rained, all the kisses and hugs given and received, all the late night calls, all the "there's no other and there won't be", all the callin' all day jas' to say "I love you, I need you, I miss you, am thinkin' about you", all the "you are the most beautiful.... I ever seen" all the "I will never stop lovin' you" all the "I wanna mary you" all the laughs, smiles, cries, shouts all the "you the best" all the great things and bad things.......................time spent. Now you have to say goodbye............someone please tell me how does one do that.

Sayin' goodbye might at time be the hardest thing to do, but might be the best thing to do. Am writing this with a thought of all the people who have been in accidents around the country in this festive season (http://www.news24.com/News24/South_Africa/News/0,,2-7-1442_2240053,00.html). Some family members lost.........................................**I feel pain in my heart when I think about it****** I'm thinking of all those who have lost their loved ones because of crime. I'm thinking of all those who have lost their children because of AIDS. I thinking of all those who have lost their "soul"partners because of cheats, arguments, misunderstandings.

I remember when my friend had an accident.....when they told me, I couldn't believe...............** I was with him not even 3 hours ago.............He said he's coming back*****.......... There I was waiting for him...............but............but............ he never came back. How do you remove all the dreams had ****chill with our wives and think about our growing up*** Then I was forced to say goodbye.........!!! but does it help to say "GOODBYE"? Does it remove all the pain? How do you do it. Someone please post a comment and tell me how you do it..........accept? yes I can, but does that remove the pain? time heals I know........ but can someone tell me how much time does one need to heal from a pain of loosing a loved one.......???!!

Please tell me how..........

3 comments:

sin-buk said...

Goodbye-this is the hardest word in the oxford dictionary.Goodbyes always take something away from me,they leave me feeling sad and empty.I understand that sometimes its for the best,but still that doesnt take away the hurt.I wish sum1 can teach me the gift of saying goodbye.Through out my life I've always been forced to say goodbye, it has been against my will.Life,situations,circumstances,surroundings always force us to utter the ugly word-goodbye.

Siphiwe said...

Ag man, wat's with the depressing topics? Am waiting patiently for some happy topics or any non-hectic stuff be4 I gooi my 2 cents' worth.

Whatchu doing @ work this tyme of the yr anyway? Ok, good bye 4 now :) So long as I don c no happy stuff here, I'll keep traumatizing u wit the dreaded good bye

Deejay Busang said...

Mfana this a blog that's gon' relate you to reality. If "sad" then you's relating sadness