Sup ya'll
My colleague has jas' said a very interestin' line to me....."WE CHOOSE TO FALL IN LOVE"!!!
Ja tell 'bout it...hectic one ne?
She thinks that if you love someone, it's a choice that you have made and you can decide to hate or stop lovin' them. Is it really true? (gooi ya' comments on this one).
Me....?????????**Thinkin' bout it carefully*** Emmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Errrrrrrrrrrrrrr..... Ok Ok let me tell you what I think......
I think it's not a choice... I think it happens like them growin' hair in ya head. It grows whether you want it or not, then you choose to cut it. Like love..........you meet someone then you cut them off your life before loves grows to a level where you want to "cut", but you can't. Cut it anyway......then go back. I think we don't even fall inlove..............NO.......I think we grow in love.
I know most of ya (especially the soapie fans) are denyin' it. In reality.........think about it now before ya'll blast at me........... There is Like - Where you jas' see someone and then wanna' hang around them.........The is Lust - Where you see someone and ya' blood just runs faster than lightning itself............The is Liking a lot - Where you've liked someone for a while and now you think you love 'em (unless you desparate to love, can't wait, obsessed about ones looks).............Now you probably asking yourself where is LOVE!!! :-) Chill am gettin' there......
Now from liking a lot we get a whole lot of stuff in ................ From it you can get Lust, Love and Hate....................(they all relate somehow) How?....................You like a person a lot for a while, chill wif 'em most of the time and then wachu know.........you see 'em wif another person...........you get jealous...... you can pissed...........you feel like you been cheated on. - You relate? Good I knew you would. Now you pissed and you wanna leave the person........ you try........... you can't. Now you realise that your "liking a lot" jas' grew into love.
Or you see the person wif' another person.........you get really pissed and all you think about is..........."damn what a great sex me gon' loose'".......you bounce anyway - Lust.
Or you see the person wif another person.......... you say "Dog...Bitch....Slut...." Hate.
If you disagree wif' this.... jas' tell me the exact date you fell inlove wif' someone (not datin'....love)???....... or who did you choose to love and hate???.
Note:.......... Am not rapin' 'bout convincing ya' self here............. Am rapin' 'bout the real feeling ya' has/d
3 comments:
It's a choice that you have to keep on making.
u don choose 2 fall in luv, u automatically grow 2 luv som1 u somehow fond of. Yes there is a thin line btwn Luv & Hate: once things start turning sour btwn 2 people: the relationship changes dramatically from calling eachada evry hour of the day to No communication at all. My opinion: One is either crazy in luv or not in luv, it's Black or white, there's just no grey.
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